How to Get Anything – From a Guy to a Girl
So you had some coffee, and you are now in a bar where there are a few couples of girls and guys. And you see a group of cute men, and you are interested in meeting them. However, to do so, you have to start off by getting the attention of the girls first. How do you do this?
The first step is to look great; make sure you are dressed nicely. And you must remember that sometimes, guys are drawn to girls who are on the verge of sliding out of their skin. Remember that what you are trying to achieve here is to create a sense of mystery. If you can do that, the guys would think that you are all that and a bag of nerves, and they would lose interest in you. On the other hand, if they see you looking handsome and dashing from afar, they might ask you to introduce yourself to them.
So, the next time that you are in a bar, try doing what I have suggested. Have a good look at the couples who are together. Eye on the future, and when you see an opportunity, go over to them and strike a conversation. That’s a course of action that might help you to finally meet someone who takes your breath away. Sometimes, you fail in your quest for happiness because you keep trying to do too much. Meanwhile, the partner that you are eying is just waiting for an invitation. Try nudging him/her to do things in a more romantic way. The next time that you meet, say hello for no reason. Get to know the guy/girl that you are eying. And when they acknowledge your presence with a smile, go over and introduce yourself. Wait for a response. If they do not propel a response, go back to your companions. Ask if they are the one to introduce you to their friends. Those are relatively easy if you are a natural at engaging people.
It is equallyImportantthat you try and reach out to them; extend your approval to them. In the end, it is what you have been searching for all the while – the chance to let someone get to know the real you.
Certainly,is not what you want to do.”But, Aneesah, I do not want to meet Mr. Right!”That’s a common complaint from women whom I have coached on how to overcome their fear of meeting the perfect partner. At the other end of the spectrum, men also do not want to meet their ideal partner. So what gives them the opportunity to finally grab hold of the chance at true love? It is because most of the major decisions that you will be making as a couple will be influenced by your values in life and the shared preferences of the two of you. Your values will eventually spill into your relationship – play things safe and take a walk in the darker shadow of your values. Try to imagine how you and your partners views may be aligned.
You’ve heard it before, but I will say it again – Constantly practicing what you preach is the best way to make it real. If you have the quality of making a list of what you won’t tolerate in your partner, then you must make a list of what you will not tolerate in your partner. If you do, then Communicate it to your partner! As for the behavior that you will tolerate, write it down on a piece of paper or include it in your partner’s, you’re pushy and you’re impatient so BE PICKY with your partner as your partner has the potential to become your future life partner.